Friday, March 27, 2009

Cheeseburger Sandwich for the Soul - getting your facebook fix

Since quitting facebook on 1/1/09 I have spent dramatically less time surfing the net, and consequently less time blogging. The social aspect of the internet is so hollow and to all out there who keep in touch through facebook, linkup, blogs or anything else- I submit my personal experience from scaling back on internet social tools; Less facebook with people = more face time with people.

Go offline. Don't be afraid. People have phone numbers and adresses. You will be able to keep in touch. People have been staying in contact without the internet since... forever. Consider the cost of convenience. How has your life changed as a result of online social networking and are you happier because of it? For me the answer was no. So I canned it and my life is more enriched, my relationships more fulfilling, and there is more time in the day to run, work, read and spend quality time with family and friends.

Think of your needs. You need social time like you need to eat. Maybe not as badly, but still. You can eat flaming hot cheetos, baby bottle pops, cookies and drink Red Bulls and satisfy your appetite; but is that good for you? Fulfilling a need doesn't mean the filler is good. Facebook is junk food filler for your social needs. As is gchat, blogging, whatever. We do it for the same reason we eat fast food while on the go. Its quick and easy. No risk, no rejection, no hassle. Well, you reap what you sow. If you eat crap you will look and feel like crap. The more you socialize through crappy channels of communication, the crappier your relationships.

I know because of experience on both sides. Take my word for it! Social life is better when you put your neck out there. Make real friends. Talk to strangers. Share experiences. Socialize like Jesus did. Be more like Him. I don't imagine He would have traded His time teaching and blessing others to sit in front of a screen typing and looking at pictures. When it comes down to it- fulfilling socialization is about communicating love. The best way to do that is in person, through service and kindness.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Singularity

Google and NASA back new school for futurists

Google and NASA are teaming up to make the Singularity University. What??! This inventor wrote a book called "The Singularity is Near" about a day coming when Matrix style technology will overcome mankind and the universe within the next century. Google and NASA must be smoking crack to buy this guy's ideas. Check them out!

The Singularity is Near



Thursday, January 29, 2009

ABC report on Mormons

Watch for the lady with big curly hair in the congregation about 3/4 of the way through. That's my Aunt Barbara!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Still banging on that key


Bad cat, Jerry Brown.
    This is an excerpt from one of many good mice, Tom Harman's (Republican in CA Senate, and a small mouse among mice) weekly newsletter regarding the current status of the Prop 8 battle to ban gay marriage. 

Update on the Status of Proposition 8

    "Many of you have contacted my office with questions regarding the current status of Proposition 8. Proposition 8, passed by the voters this past November, defines marriage in the California Constitution to be between one man and one woman. Opponents of the initiative immediately challenged its constitutionality. It is awaiting a hearing in the California Supreme Court.

    This will not be the first time this issue has come before our Supreme Court. Just last May, the constitutionality of Proposition 22, an earlier voter-approved same-sex marriage amendment, was challenged in the same manner. Because the Court chose to overturn that proposition, proponents of traditional marriage gathered signatures and had Proposition 8 placed on last November’s ballot.

    In reviewing the measure, the Court is being asked to decide three issues:

-What is the status of the approximately 18,000 same sex marriages granted between May, when Proposition 22 was overturned, and November, when Proposition 8 passed?

-Is Proposition 8 a revision of, or an amendment to, the state’s constitution? California voters may only amend, not revise the state constitution.

-Is Proposition 8 a violation of the separation of powers doctrine? When the people vote by the initiative process they act as legislators, and not as the sovereign, by directly approving a new law and bypassing the legislature.

    To add further to the confusion, last month Attorney General Jerry Brown filed a legal brief claiming the same-sex marriage ban " is itself unconstitutional because it deprives a minority group of a fundamental right." This argument has never been used before and has raised some legal eyebrows. Some are questioning whether it is the Attorney General’s role to take a 
position contrary to the will of the people in a duly held election.

    Opponents of Proposition 8 believe the initiative actually revised the constitution and since, in their opinion, the voters have no legal authority to revise – only to amend –the initiative should be overturned. Proponents of the proposition argue the initiative was nothing more than an amendment and thus perfectly legal. They cite Proposition 13, passed in 1978, as precedent for their position. Prop. 13 drastically changed the fiscal policies of the state and was upheld by the U.S. Court. It has been law for over 30 years. Proponents believe if the same legal arguments are applied, the Court would be hard pressed to find Proposition 8 anything more than an amendment.

    The issues before the Court are highly charged with people on both sides of the debate vocally advocating their position in the media. There has even been talk of a ca
mpaign to recall the justices should the Court once again go against the will of the voters and overturn a ban on same sex marriages. While a judicial recall has yet to be tried in California, state Supreme Court Justices have been defeated in their bids for re-appointment – most famously, Chief Justice Rose Bird in 1986. Though it may not come to such measures, the threat of a recall is very serious.

    No doubt the California Supreme Court has quite a task at hand with this issue of constitutionality. The coming months will unveil many opinions, a very thorough and contemplative reading of the constitution and a raucous public debate."

I know. Tom is the cat and Jerry the mouse. Whatever.

Monday, January 26, 2009

Passenger Complaint Letter

This letter had me laughing out loud at 8 AM, alone in my room. Its a Virgin Air passenger (from India) complaining to the CEO about the flight food.

Here is the link- Virgin: the world's best passenger complaint letter?

and my favorite chunk of excerpt (its best if you imagine the Brit-Indian accent too)-

"I’ll try and explain how this felt. Imagine being a twelve year old boy Richard. Now imagine it’s Christmas morning and you’re sat their with your final present to open. It’s a big one, and you know what it is. It’s that Goodmans stereo you picked out the catalogue and wrote to Santa about.

Only you open the present and it’s not in there. It’s your hamster Richard. It’s your hamster in the box and it’s not breathing. That’s how I felt when I peeled back the foil and saw this: [see image 3, above].

Now I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking it’s more of that Baaji custard. I admit I thought the same too, but no. It’s mustard Richard. MUSTARD. More mustard than any man could consume in a month..."

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Just not

Women are so empowered these days with all their self-help dating books to nab men. For whatever reason, these books are far less common for men. Maybe because; we don't have women figured out, don't care to buy books like that, think we already know, etc.

Anyways, I tried to find a relevant book for men and stumbled across this askmen.com article written by a woman for men to know if a woman is just not that into you. Enjoy-

She's just not that into you.

Summary:
1. She says she's not ready for a relationship.
2. You're always the one calling her and/or she doesn't return your phone calls
3. She avoids eye contact and physical proximity
4. She mentions other guys she finds attractive
5. She tries to set you up with other women
6. She doesn't laugh at your jokes
7. She is always vague about making plans
8. She regularly cancels plans with you
9. Her description of the perfect man sounds nothing like you